Don’t judge me to hurt me, or hate me,

but judge me to love me, to know me,

to bring the best me forward.

Don’t judge me to hurt me, or hate me,
but judge me to love me, to know me,
to bring the best me forward.
Don’t judge me to hurt me, or hate me,

but judge me to love me, to know me,

to bring  the best me forward.

 

Creating A Home Gym

I am creating a gym in my hallway where I can do my workouts, right now I’m doing it in the living room but that’s a bit daunting because I have to bring everything there and take them back. So now I have the perfect space for it. I love working out outside so when the winter comes I have no choice but to take my workout indoors, I really don’t do well in the cold so going to a gym would be a big no for me . It takes to much motivation to workout during the winter let alone going to a gym, don’t mind I want to try a cold weather run one day. Also the cost and getting there and don’t forget all the naked people in the changing room. I once had a membership in a gym and I couldn’t used the equipment I wanted because someone always hogging it, or I would find sweat all over the mats that I started to bring my own. But don’t get me wrong home gyms isn’t for everyone some of us need to get out of  the house or we simply can’t motivate ourselves to exercise regularly. These days there are so much on line Gyms, DVD or even Youtube.  You can created a little space in your own home and start exercising whenever you are ready without leaving .  So if you guys are a gym person or like to workout at home like me or whatever you do to get in that exercise enjoy God is good. 

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Fasting

This month is a special time for prayer, it’s the beginning of lent which I think everyone should take part in whether you are Catholic or not. The Lord our God give up his life for all our sins so surely we can sacrifice 40 days and stay in faith and pray. I was reading this on (Christopher J. Hale). And I quote, In an annual Lenten message, the pope writes, “whenever our interior life becomes caught up in its own interests and concerns, there is no longer room for others, no place for the poor. God’s voice is no longer heard, the quiet joy of his love is no longer felt, and the desire to do good fades.” He continues that, “We end up being incapable of feeling compassion at the outcry of the poor, weeping for other people’s pain, and feeling a need to help them, as though all this were someone else’s responsibility and not our own.”But when we fast from this indifference, we can began to

feast on love. In fact, Lent is the perfect time to learn how to love again. Jesus—the great protagonist of this holy season—certainly showed us the way. In him, God descends all the way down to bring everyone up. In his life and his ministry, no one is excluded.

“What are you giving up for Lent?” It’s a question a lot of people will get these next few days. If you want to change your body, perhaps alcohol and candy is the way to go. But if you want to change your heart, a harder fast is needed. This narrow road is gritty, but it isn’t sterile. It will make room in ourselves to experience a love that can make us whole and set us free.

New Year Sacrifices…

As I enter into the end of the year 2015 I am very calm, and even though it’s half way through the month I have no stress and I own it all to the word (NO) to myself. This month brings the hustle and bustle or what the media wants us to believe we should be buying, or standing on line for and if we don’t get the new “Must Have” them we are doomed.  I have no great expectations of my family and I but to be relax and enjoy this magical day Christmas. Isn’t that what it all about just being the best you?

Looking back now on all my resolutions through out were not fulfill , the goals I set for each year I haven’t accomplished any for myself.  As the new year begin I get so busy just by making all the bills and hoping  that first few months passes by quickly,  and sadly all my hope for the new year slowly pass me by with no attention given. The thing I realized back then my goals weren’t that challenging they were just simple thing I can do in my daily life,  because most of them was about what I wanted.  But I did get to make some changes like starting this blog , finding a church to call my home and lending my time to the Bots store.  All these were not on my to do list at the beginning of the year but they all bring me joy and I am happy. 

And yet another year is about to begin and I am getting so excited in making  my goals once again.  But this time i’m going to be setting  goals for my needs which is  by  far  most  important.    As the month goes I will have a month to month calendar of my sacrifices which will  accommodate me.  It will be a little challenging because I have to stop putting my wants first and we all know how hard that could be.  But still I have a lots of things to fix that I  ignore for a very long time,  like being on time with everything.   I know it will help me to grow and enjoy a little bit more of myself.  This time of year could be very stressful trying to get everything you think you need together ,  but remember christmas is all about the joy and smiles we bring to one another, being with your love ones along with spreading love to everyone that pass your way MERRY CHRISTMAS.   God is good … IMG_2877